Important Friends in Life.

 


Throughout adulthood, it is easy to lose touch with old friends and it can be hard to develop new friendships. The digital age/modern era (whatever it is called) complicated this process as well as by changing the way we friends interact.  Phone calls have been exchanged by text messages and the social media has replaced the need for face-to-face interaction, hangouts with friends often become fewer and farther between. Everything just drifts apart.

But there is growing evidence that friendships may be very important in terms of our personal and professional life. Even as an adult, friends can have a big influence over how we feel, think and behave. Friends are likely to come and go throughout the seasons of your life.  And Jobs change, moving to a new city, and studying in different colleges/university are among the many things that may  bring changes in the friendships of your life. The demands of life and a busy career can move friends to the bottom of the  priority list at times.

It may be wise however, to re-evaluate the most important  roles  friends play in your life. If spending quality time with friends isn’t high on your to-do list, it may make sense to schedule a get-together sooner rather than later. After all, friends impact not just the quality of your life, but perhaps even the length of it. It probably will stay for the rest of your life.

You see we all have ups and downs. Life is like a  wave. Our friends are also like waves, funny isn’t it. Ok then, Alright, so I have this one friend who means alot to me. My best friend (stupid, funny, irritating, idiotic, smart, ethical, you name it and they have it), who is really my major counterpart in terms of emotional and fundamental thinking. So there is a day when I have to make one very important decision of life, and he  is there just to get my head clear.

Everyone  of us have  ups and downs. But when we are together, at any point of time, there wouldn’t be a situation or event, that can make us down at the same time. We have our limitations, troubles in life, but when we discuss everything seems to be possible. We fight, we hurt, we torture each other, but that is all just fun. We do not judge, we do not discourage, we do not take anything for granted, we care, most importantly  we evolve and grow together. We do not have the slightest amount of grudge or hatred. We might be angry for one or the other reason which could be unjustified anger at times, but we never, never ever fall apart. We are stupid, we are smart. We talk good, we talk bad, we go on random outings and we support each other. Life is so cool, when we are around. We fall in love with someone when one of us approves and when love falls apart, one of us is there to ensure life still goes on in the right direction. This completely summarizes what friends are and how things can be so cool.

You see, one friend is just enough for a life time:) Thank you for reading. . You might have more than one best friend, then you are lucky. If you do not have one, then it might be time you make one. In the end, have some friends for life time. To all the BestFriends. Cheers.

 

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